33. People Pleasing in Marriage, Part 2

Dec 10, 2021

Alternatives to people pleasing: The importance of wanting. Charity: pure love. Permission to say “no” helps saying “yes” genuinely come from you. Do you think you should be abandoned? Do you think you are worth being married too? I mean the REAL you. We make this about how others judge us, but it’s about how we judge ourselves. If people you care about are upset with you, and you don’t see this as anything having gone wrong, how different would your approach be? How to show up and support your spouse even better in this situation. Personal experience with doing the dishes. If you are not in a position to talk about something at the moment, say “no” and find another time that can be a genuine “yes” from both of you. It’s not other people’s job to like me, that’s my job. “I love you. And, ’No.’” Improve your life and relationships through less people pleasing. You can do things you don’t want to do, just tell yourself the truth about it.

Listen to the full episode HERE. In case you missed it, CLICK HERE to listen to Part 1.

Lindsay and Danny Poelman are certified life coaches and are members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. Danny helps guys to stop looking at porn and make their real life and/or marriage what they want it to be. Lindsay helps women let go of the fantasy marriage that doesn’t exist and create the marriage of their dreams in real life.